Reverse Cowgirl

How to Ride Him Like a Goddess (and Make It Feel Incredible)

Reverse Cowgirl is one of the most visually stunning and deeply satisfying positions. She faces away from him, giving both partners an incredible view and powerful sensations.

Here’s exactly how to do it right — plus 5 variations that make it even better.

How to Do It

1. He lies on his back comfortably on the bed.
2. She straddles him facing his feet (away from him).
3. She lowers herself onto him and finds a comfortable rhythm.
4. She can lean forward, stay upright, or use her hands on his thighs or the bed for support.
5. He can hold her hips, spank, or reach around to touch her.

Pro Tips & Variations

• Classic Reverse Cowgirl: She stays upright and controls the depth and speed. Perfect for deep penetration and giving him an amazing view.
• Leaning Forward: She leans forward and places her hands on his thighs or the bed. This changes the angle and creates tighter sensation.
• Reverse Cowgirl with Toy: Add a small vibrator on her clit while riding — this can lead to extremely intense blended orgasms.
• Grinding Reverse Cowgirl: Instead of bouncing, she grinds in slow circles. This is often more pleasurable and less tiring.
• Reverse Cowgirl on the Edge: She sits on the edge of the bed facing away while he stands or kneels behind her. Excellent leverage and control.

Who It’s Best For

Reverse Cowgirl is perfect for:

• Women who love being in control and setting the pace
• Couples who want a visually stunning position
• Deep penetration and G-spot stimulation
• Women who enjoy clitoral stimulation while riding (with a toy or his hand)

Related Positions

• Cowgirl Position & Variations
• Doggy Style Position Guide
• Edge of the Bed Positions

“Reverse Cowgirl isn’t just about the view — it’s about her taking full control and owning her pleasure.”

— Rachel Foster

Frequently Asked Questions

Is Reverse Cowgirl good for beginners?

Yes, but it can take a little practice to find your balance and rhythm. Start slow and use your hands on his thighs or the bed for support. Confidence comes quickly once you get the hang of it.

How do I make Reverse Cowgirl less tiring?

Lean forward and use your hands for support. Grind in slow circles instead of bouncing up and down. You can also switch between sitting upright and leaning forward to give your legs a break.

What if I feel self-conscious in this position?

Many women feel exposed in Reverse Cowgirl. Try dimming the lights, wearing something sexy, or having him wear a blindfold so you can relax and enjoy the control. Remember — he’s probably too turned on to notice anything but how hot you look.

Can I use toys during Reverse Cowgirl?

Absolutely. A small vibrator on your clit while riding him can lead to some of the most intense orgasms. Just make sure the toy isn’t too bulky or in the way.

How do I make Reverse Cowgirl more intense for him?

Lean forward and grab his ankles or the bed for leverage. This creates a tighter angle and changes the sensation completely. You can also add a little grinding motion or squeeze your pelvic floor muscles while you’re deep inside him.

Source: This guide is based on feedback from thousands of couples who regularly enjoy Reverse Cowgirl.